Reviews & client stories
Some found their way back to a relationship. Others found their way back to themselves. Here's what people have shared about working with Alexis and the team.
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The program has genuinely changed the way I understand myself and my relationships. Before starting, I felt like I understood attachment theory intellectually, but I was still getting caught in the same patterns. The programme helped me connect the dots between what I was feeling, where those reactions were coming…
Scott · GB · 12 September 2026 · Trustpilot
I went through hell after breaking up with my avoidant ex. My therapist at the time wasn’t very helpful. I joined the program and felt better almost immediately. The first call with Alexis was a real shift in how I was dealing with the breakup. I don’t think I could have moved on so quickly without it. Now I’m…
Alex · CA · October 2026 · Trustpilot
In a single diagnostic session, and after reading some letters I had written to my DA and analyzing them and my DA's responses to them (via text), Alex was able to provide clarity on my situation that gave me profound relief. I could have spent months and thousands of dollars rehashing all my questions, thoughts,…
Ashley Moss-Pham · US · 15 February 2026 · Trustpilot
After a difficult breakup, I was stuck and didn't know what to do. My therapist at the time wasn't helpful. I joined the secure base program with Alexis and it was a total game changer. I am now back with my ex and we finally manage to connect emotionally.
Sam · FR · 1 August 2025 · Trustpilot
Alexis's unique WhatsApp coaching method has helped me through many darkest periods where I needed to chat with him or simply vent my anxieties or thoughts with him without having to wait for a scheduled face to face call. I am always apologetic about my rants on whatsapp but he encourages me as it helps him to assess…
June · SG · 25 October 2023 · Trustpilot
Alexis was my absolute ‘go to’ in some of the darkest days in my life . I am in my mid 50’s , and dating mating and relating had become a minefield for me . My ex partner was a widower which was in itself very difficult . Fastforward … alot of self work and guidance and I am loving life . Alexis and Elizabeth ( shes…
Preston · GB · 26 January 2024 · Trustpilot
Last year, at the start of an excruciatingly painful time in my life, I came across Alexis' YouTube videos and started watching. His advice was so helpful that I decided to book a discovery call with him. That call gave me a good feeling and the confidence I needed to begin his coaching program. I was in deep shock…
Carrie G. · US · 30 September 2025 · Trustpilot
Had a great experience with Alexis, Elizabeth, and another therapist from their team (I forgot her name). They told me what I needed to hear at the time. In my case, what I needed to hear was that it was better to break up with my ex, since I always fell for women that took advantage of me. I also enrolled in their…
Arnaud Installé · BE · 30 March 2024 · Trustpilot
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Five people who came to Alexis stuck on an avoidant partner, in their own words.
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I went through hell after breaking up with my avoidant ex. My therapist at the time wasn’t very helpful. I joined the program and felt better almost immediately. The first call with Alexis was a real shift in how I was…
Alex · CA · October 2026 · Trustpilot
Before working with Alexis, every time my ex pulled away I panicked. I'd send another message, ask for reassurance, then regret it afterwards. The biggest change was learning not to react immediately. I became much…
Nadia · MA · 27 September 2026 · Trustpilot
The program has genuinely changed the way I understand myself and my relationships. Before starting, I felt like I understood attachment theory intellectually, but I was still getting caught in the same patterns. The…
Scott · GB · 12 September 2026 · Trustpilot
In a single diagnostic session, and after reading some letters I had written to my DA and analyzing them and my DA's responses to them (via text), Alex was able to provide clarity on my situation that gave me profound…
Ashley Moss-Pham · US · 15 February 2026 · Trustpilot
It's one thing to have all the right things to say (which to a certain extent, the therapy-goers sorta can feel & know); its totally a different thing deliver it in a truly RELATABLE way and bring back to control…
Andrés Fonollosa · VN · 10 December 2025 · Trustpilot
Alexis is a master in his craft. He listened closely to my story, asked thoughtful questions, and provided meaningful advice on how to handle the situation now and in the future. Additionally, he gave me tips on how to…
Niels · NL · 20 November 2025 · Trustpilot
Alexis is a professional therapist amongst many unqualified amateurs on social media that prey on those going through difficult breakups. His guidance is based on psychological principles and insights, and his goal is…
Howard Blevins · US · 12 November 2025 · Trustpilot
Last year, at the start of an excruciatingly painful time in my life, I came across Alexis' YouTube videos and started watching. His advice was so helpful that I decided to book a discovery call with him. That call gave…
Carrie G. · US · 30 September 2025 · Trustpilot
Alexis is a true specialist for the specific traits of DAs. His WhatsApp coaching is so incredibly helpful and gives me extremely valuable insights into the mind of DAs and my DA ex. Everytime I feel stuck I am offered…
Marie · AT · 12 August 2025 · Trustpilot
After a difficult breakup, I was stuck and didn't know what to do. My therapist at the time wasn't helpful. I joined the secure base program with Alexis and it was a total game changer. I am now back with my ex and we…
Sam · FR · 1 August 2025 · Trustpilot
I give Alexis a 5 star review. I went from not sleeping at night and being stalked by my ex(who dumped me overnight after a 2.5 yr relationship/situationship) on social media to moving on and developing a successful…
David · GB · 2 January 2025 · Trustpilot
Alexis coaching really helped me to provide directions after my break up. What I liked is his focus is to help me self build my confidence and not so much focus on break up. With his help now I am looking into finding…
Ms. AVNEET AJIT BAID · US · 20 September 2024 · Trustpilot
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