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The current dynamic
What appears to be happening between you right now.
The Diagnostic
Get Alexis's perspective on the relationship in front of you.
For when you understand the theory but still cannot make sense of your own situation. In one 60-minute session, Alexis looks directly at the relationship as it stands now, helps you understand the dynamic, identify possible blind spots and clarify what to consider next.
60 minutes · One private session with Alexis · $500
What we look at
One session focused on your actual situation.
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Patterns and blind spots
Where attachment patterns, assumptions or repeated dynamics may be shaping how you are reading the situation.
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What the evidence shows
Separate what has actually happened from fear, hope and interpretation.
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The decision or question keeping you stuck
Focus the session around the thing you most need clarity on.
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What to consider next
Leave with a clearer understanding of the situation and the next step or question worth acting on.
Who this is for
Your situation needs a direct look.
- ✓You already understand a lot about attachment but still cannot make sense of your own situation.
- ✓You keep revisiting the same question and no longer trust your judgement.
- ✓Your situation feels too specific for general online advice.
- ✓You want Alexis's perspective before deciding what to do next.
- ✓You want focused support in one session rather than a longer programme.
Who this is not for
Another option may fit better.
- ×You mainly want to learn Alexis's evaluation process and apply it yourself.→ Explore The Secure Decision
- ×You need ongoing support as your relationship changes.→ Explore Secure Base
- ×You are looking for someone to guarantee reconciliation or tell you exactly what your partner is thinking.
- ×You need emergency or crisis support.
How it works
Four simple steps.
- 01Book your sessionChoose an available time.
- 02Complete the pre-session formGive Alexis the context he needs so the session can focus on the parts that matter most.
- 03Meet with Alexis for 60 minutesWork through the relationship dynamic, the evidence available, possible blind spots and the decision or question keeping you stuck.
- 04Leave with clearer directionFinish with a stronger understanding of what the situation may be showing you and what to consider doing next.
What Alexis may look at
The areas a session can draw on.
The session is shaped around the situation you bring, so not every area will need equal attention.
Attachment patterns
How anxious, avoidant and secure tendencies may be showing up on both sides.
Emotional regulation
How activation, spirals or shutdown may be affecting your choices.
Interpretation and assumptions
Where the story you are telling may differ from what has happened.
Needs and boundaries
What you need, what you have been tolerating and where the line may be.
Communication and behaviour
What the pattern of words and actions between you may be showing.
What people say
“Best time and money I ever spent.”
“In a single Diagnostic session, Alex was able to provide clarity on my situation that gave me profound relief. I could have spent months and thousands of dollars rehashing all my questions, thoughts and self-doubts and not received the clarity and confidence I got from one session. The result? No more rumination. Mental clarity. Emotional freedom and resolve.”
Ashley Moss-Pham
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One session, or a process you can keep using?
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The Diagnostic
Get Alexis's direct perspective on where your current situation stands now.
The Secure Decision
Learn the process Alexis uses, so you know how to work out what happens next without starting over every time the situation changes.
Explore The Secure Decision →Secure Base
Work through an active or changing situation with ongoing personalised support.
Explore Secure Base →Questions
Before you book.
Get a clearer read on the situation in front of you.
One focused 60-minute session with Alexis.
$500