Guides
Distance and silence
Space, no contact and mixed signals: what they mean, and what they do not.
What an avoidant thinks during no contact
What goes on in an avoidant's mind during no contact: relief first, feelings pushed down, and why the timelines you see online are invented.
3 min read
Why do they watch my stories but not text?
Why an avoidant ex watches your stories but never texts, how little a view really tells you, and what to do about it.
4 min read
How long should I give an avoidant space?
No study gives a number of days. How to tell space with a return time from open-ended silence, and when waiting stops being patience.
5 min read
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